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âSay âThank Youâ,â you were told time and time again as a kid. Your parents just wanted you to be polite, but it turns out thereâs actually a lot more to gratitude than just good manners. Â
Building a practice of gratitude has been linked to better wellbeing, decreased depression, better-quality...
Every time I see friends comment âI see from your social posts that youâre doing great and very busyâ, Iâm flattered and disappointed at the same time.
Shame on both of us. I admittedly only post brag-worthy stuff. Who doesnât? My friends seemingly assume thatâs my entire life status. We all do ...
On a recent gray Monday, I felt unmotivated, dumpy, and otherwise disheveled. Despite my mood, I greeted the yoga instructor and classmates with genuinely warm hellos indicating that I was happy we all were there, especially after a long year of not seeing these gym friends.
A couple entered lat...
Ever drive somewhere and realize you somehow got there without really paying attention to the road the entire time? Itâs because youâre distracted at least and more likely overwhelmed.
Being overwhelmed hijacks everyoneâs executive functioning, denying us presence so that we just go through the...
Weâre taught that showcasing our accomplishments is âcockyâ, but hereâs why thatâs not true:Â
Cockiness is defined by âoverconfidenceâ, meaning that you are speaking above your accomplishments, not about them. While confident behavior builds credibility and trust, cocky behavior diminishes it.Â
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Ever hear the phrase, âMonkey see, monkey doâ? This is often used to describe the way monkeys (and people) seem to do things without understanding it. Whatâs interesting is that this phrase accurately describes Giacomo Rizzolattiâs experiment with macaque monkeys in 1992. In this experiment, Rizz...